How to Recognize Self-Sabotage Behaviour

If you do not have the kind of success you want, you are probably experiencing self-destructive behavior. Also, when engaging in these types of behaviors it is important to identify what you are doing and to change.

Playing a waiting game

If you ever feel like saying, "I'll do that if XYZ" stop it now. It all makes sense but it is a waiting game that will never end. If you do not take action now, nothing will happen.

You Live With Bad People

Yes, even in adulthood you can choose the wrong kind of friends. If you often find yourself going against your friends' values ​​and goals, or you may find yourself apologizing for other people's behavior, you make excuses to avoid an uncomfortable outcome. You are better than your friends.

It says: "I will never ..."

Fill in the blanks with what you cannot say, do or hear. The fact is if you do not believe you will succeed in your business, or you will lose extra weight, you will probably not succeed. You need to visualize the success you want to achieve. If everything you see is negative, that's all you will get.

Self-destruction is often faint.

Most of the time, we do not even realize that we are hurting ourselves to the end. This means that we need to identify the root of the problem. Once we identify the causes, we can work on them to change them.

Haughty ones often feel that they are doing something wrong.

It is not uncommon for self-injurers to believe that they are doing something wrong or that they are being punished for doing something wrong. They may think that if they do well, they will be rewarded; however, they never receive any form of positive feedback.

I Don't Want To Do "It" Alone

We are all finally alone. If you wait for everyone to be on the same page as you, you may be missing out on a wonderful new adventure. Whether you start a business, see a movie, or try a new restaurant, you can do it yourself without someone else doing it for you.

To Think You Are "Unwise" As ...

Someone will always be smart, beautiful, or something higher than you. By saying you are nothing, you will have a hard time getting out of the box you put yourself in. Forget who you think you are, do what you want to do. There is no need for perfection.

You Hide Your Feelings

When someone asks you a question about your feelings, you just say "I'm fine" and leave - even when you're not feeling well. Did you know that you can get stuck in a certain mind if you avoid it and don't talk about it? You have to name it to change it.

My Client Needs Me

Anyone can replace me. When you find yourself working with someone because you think they need you, or it doesn't work for you, you're wasting your time. A client that does not match you will leave you when they find a partner. Do not do it for anyone unless you really want to.

You do not have a Support Program

Support can come in a variety of forms, from personal support to electronic support. If you set up a good system that will help you stick to your plan (whether for work or leisure) and get help when you need it, you will be much more effective if you do not.

Life can be stressful and sometimes tiring. So how do some people seem to succeed and achieve their goals and dreams while others struggle? The answer is logical. To start taking steps today to embrace the concept of success get a copy of my free checklist, Developing a Successful Mindset