Do other people make you feel things?

Do they make you feel happy or sad?

Do I wanna know. How do they make you feel this way?

Do they say, 'Hey, what's up?'

Or maybe they say, Ahh, you need a bucket of joy. Hold on, I found one here that you can have.

Can you find happiness or sadness on the shelves of supermarkets, pre-assembled and ready to go?

Shopaholics stores may argue that you can do that; however, I would say you know.

We often rely on other people to make us feel a certain way. We rely on them to do something, to say something, to be something so that we can feel happy. When they do not do what we expect them to do, we become angry, sad, and hurt.

In short, we often try to control other people in order to control our emotions; that is, our emotions.

And when we do this, we set ourselves up for failure, because we can't control someone else. We cannot force anyone to do anything or think that they will do it.

There is only one person we control; we.

People do not make us feel certain emotions. We prefer to feel. We decide to react in a certain way. We do think about what people are saying. He jumped to the conclusion.

No one can give you a can of happiness, or a bucket of happiness. These are not material things that can be passed from one person to another. They are intangibles that exist only in us.

In fact, one day I was at a wedding. I told one of my friends how beautiful she looked and how much I liked her dress. He jumped to the conclusion that I was being rude and chose to be offended by what I was actually praising.

If I had been teasing her, she would have preferred to be praised and respond with a, I'm glad she liked it and felt better about her.

There was a boy I had known since I was a child. She was short, spotted, spotted, and changed to a good-looking department. However, whenever we went out to the bars, he would walk up to any pretty woman and start talking to her. If he rejects her, he shrugs his shoulders and continues.

I don't think you've ever felt bad about this rejection. Hed simply smiles and says, Your loss, and move on to the next one.

Believe it or not, each one of you has control over how you feel. You can choose to feel it any way you want. In the meantime, you can choose to feel happy; or I'm sure you can choose to feel sad. Just thinking about it can change the way you feel.

It's almost magic, isn't it?

So what about choosing how you feel when communicating with other people?

Most people run on auto-pilot. They allow their body and mind to move on, not worrying too much about the systems or their condition. It doesn't bother them much so they let it go.

It is like looking at all the cars moving around the city without seeing anyone inside.

Many people have forgotten that this person is in control of them.

If you choose, you can also control how you feel and stop relying on other people to meet certain conditions.

If you go to an office and someone says, Good Morning to you, you can choose to complain and murmur, There is nothing good about it. Or, you can choose to respond kindly and say, good morning.

That is, you can choose to feel bad or you can choose to feel good.

Which do you prefer?

Be aware that you are the only person who can make you feel anything and stop letting the people around you make you feel bad. Decide to feel good and have fun.

If someone dumps you or dumps you, their loss or the like.

If someone says they insult you, Evil, you should be confused or something like that.

Decide to get back into control and your health and stop being auto-pilot. Choose how you will feel instead of letting other people choose you.